Is success equal to winning ?

success is not equal to winning 

winning things are only 

some the proofs 

that you actually enjoy 

things that other people 

think are hard

the process 

of learning something 

and

applying it to your life

no matter 

in what field 

in what subject

in what aspect

if you enjoy

doing the hard process 

you already achieve 

"success in life"

now you can do whatever things 

in life 

but still can find joy 

in every step

in every long hours

in every meeting bunch of complicated people

in every leisure walks

in every nature sightseeing 

because you know 

everything counts 

your sip of coffee counts

your drop of tears counts

your effort of trying to understand counts

even when 

you are resting 

you are spending your time on social media

all of it counts

the smallest habit of yours

will always count

that's probably why we are human

humans are not perfect 

every loss is actually 

not a real loss of ours 

but it's actually

one of the steps that counts for success 

if we let ourselves 

let go of the "perfect" idea 

and 

grasp on being better 

bit by bit 

eventually 

other people will consider 

us as "perfect human"

we then will be better 

at handling mistakes

that's probably

because we have done it before

and learned from it

that's why we know 

what to do 

and 

what not to do 

and 

not because 

we are really 

"perfect human"